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Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

01/01/2016 by Deborah Brooks

New Year's Resolution|goals|ideasHappy New Year everyone! It’s that time again….We are seeing friends and family posting all kinds of New Year’s Resolutions for 2016. But how many people actually stick with their goals? Not many according to most polls here and here. In fact, it appears that 1 in 3 goal setters have all but given up by the end of January.

Here are a few reasons why I believe New Year’s Resolutions don’t work and a couple strategies to tilt the odds in your favor.

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  1. Baby Steps: More often than not, people set lofty unattainable resolutions without any sort of plan on how to achieve them. Instead of “I am going to go to the gym everyday” or “I am going to become a vegetarian and be healthier”, why not reframe those into smaller easier attainable goals. For example: I am going to go to the Wednesday spin class each week or I am going to go Meatless 2 days a week. Setting smaller more achievable goals and seeing yourself crush them encourages you to keep going.

  2. It’s about time: Often people under estimate the amount of time all of their new goals might require of them. Sitting down and figuring out how much time you really have to designate to reaching your goals is key to succeeding. If you already feel like you are swamped with work and family responsibilities, perhaps now is not time to commit to marathon training for example. Plan out the time you will need to work on your goal each week and write it in your planner as you would any other appointment.

  3. Find Your Why: Why do you want to xxx? Are you working towards something that you really want to achieve or are you going along with something a friend or spouse wants you to do? Is your goal something that sparks you to pop out of bed in the morning because you can’t wait to work on it? Can you visualize how your life might be if you completed your goal? Find your motivation.

  4. We don’t like to fail: Sometimes we have to fail a few times before achieving success. Failure does not feel good and can lead us toward abandoning our goals. Are you prepared to fail to achieve? You might not get the position you are applying for the first time you try or might not complete your race at your goal time. Having the strength to get back up and try again is key.

  5. Reward Me!- We perform better when we are rewarded. Having small rewards on the way to your bigger goal will allow you to stay motivated. So Whether it’s numbers on a scale, looser fitting clothing or lower cholesterol numbers, having definable ways to measure your success will help you stay motivated.

Tell me-What’s your plan to achieve your resolutions?

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Filed Under: Friday Five, Healthy living, Running Tagged With: 2016, fitness, Friday Five, Goals, healthy living, linkup, New Year, resolutions, training

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Hi I'm Deborah! I spend my days successfully raising a husband & 2 teens in the VA/DC area. I am a lover of all things running & fitness. As a life long vegetarian, I've always been passionate about healthy living & exercise. Looking for partners in crime, I started my own chapter of Moms Run This Town (MRTT) which has grown to over 700 members. I've met so many amazing women who inspire me daily to keep moving forward. You can usually find me running with my crew and training for the next crazy adventure they talked me into. I love to keep up to date on new running & fitness trends. I definitely choose my running gear based on color and love to express my fashion sense while exercising.

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  1. Debbie @ Coach Debbie Runs says

    01/01/2016 at 10:43 am

    I so agree that baby steps are important. Instead of looking at the big picture, we must break it down so it doesn’t look insurmountable.
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    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 12:41 pm

      Yes definitely!

  2. Paria@momontherunsanity.com says

    01/01/2016 at 10:59 am

    I’ve stopped making resolutions for a few years now …. A few goals but that’s it… Very liberating…. Happy 2016
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    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 12:41 pm

      It really is isn’t it? Happy New Year!

  3. Coco says

    01/01/2016 at 12:11 pm

    Great breakdown. For me, it’s about perseverance and remembering my why.
    Coco recently posted…Favorite Fitness Finds Of 2015My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 12:42 pm

      The why is so important! I think that’s one of the reasons people give up

  4. Nicole @ Fitful Focus says

    01/01/2016 at 12:51 pm

    Agreed! I usually start doing the research and ground work toward achieving my goals in early December and always break my yearly goals down into baby steps. You need the mini goals to help accomplish the big one. Happy New Year, my friend!
    Nicole @ Fitful Focus recently posted…Goals for 2016My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 1:12 pm

      Yes the mini goals are great motivators for sure!

  5. Chrissy @ Snacking in Sneakers says

    01/01/2016 at 1:00 pm

    I’m totally with you on the baby steps. Rather than setting a broad overarching goal, I like to break everything down and set several small goals that I know are achievable. I need to sit down this weekend and plan out some more of my 2016 resolutions, but a big one for me is meal planning – so I sat down and planned out all of January today!
    Chrissy @ Snacking in Sneakers recently posted…Monthly Meal Plan for January!My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 1:12 pm

      I know pretty impressive on that front!

  6. courtney @ eat pray run dc says

    01/01/2016 at 2:03 pm

    Excellent tips – I’m really hoping to help encourage folks with their goals through my goal setting plan for the year. Love this post!!
    courtney @ eat pray run dc recently posted…2016 Racing PlansMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 4:26 pm

      Thanks! Happy new year

  7. Lisa @ Running Out Of Wine says

    01/01/2016 at 2:14 pm

    You are so right! I think these tips are really important when setting goals. I felt like I had to spend alot of time thinking about what goals were meaningful to me and also realistic. I think its good to have lofty goals as long as we have a plan to get there. Happy New Year!
    Lisa @ Running Out Of Wine recently posted…A Look Back at December and 2015My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 4:26 pm

      Exactly! ????

  8. Jess @hellotofit says

    01/01/2016 at 5:14 pm

    YES! Rather than setting a goal for the entire year, setting small, short-term goals has been shown to be a bigger success 🙂 great tips, Deborah! Happy new year!
    Jess @hellotofit recently posted…Panang Curry Black-Eyed Peas Over Coconut RiceMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 9:52 pm

      Thanks! Happy new year

  9. bri says

    01/01/2016 at 5:39 pm

    Awesome advice, as always 🙂 Sharing with my training clients on my personal training Facebook page!

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:03 pm

      Aw thanks! Happy new year

  10. Sue @ This Mama Runs for Cupcakes says

    01/01/2016 at 5:52 pm

    Yep, totally agree. I never set resolutions. I prefer short measurable goals so I don’t set myself up for failure!! Happy New Year!
    Sue @ This Mama Runs for Cupcakes recently posted…My Year of Running 2015My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:04 pm

      Absolutely! Happy 2016 hope to see you soon

  11. Montana @ Pretty Lil Mudder says

    01/01/2016 at 6:09 pm

    Haha I see we had the same idea about New Year’s Resolutions! I agree with all your reasons- my post was similar. Almost everyone I know has resolutions and I don’t anticipate many of my friends actually sticking with them. Hopefully they will prove me wrong, but we’ll see!
    Montana @ Pretty Lil Mudder recently posted…5 Reasons Your New Year’s Resolutions Won’t Work and How to Fix ItMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:06 pm

      I know! I kind of cringe when I hear friends making lofty goals I know they won’t keep. Happy new year !

  12. Jenn says

    01/01/2016 at 7:16 pm

    I don’t really make resolutions, simply because they are so hard to attain. However, I have some goals as far as my fitness, and I will just keep training and chipping away at them until I get there. I will hire a coach again to help out and remain consistent with my cross training and we shall see what happens.

    Happy new year!
    Jenn recently posted…2015 in reviewMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:09 pm

      Sounds like a great plan! Happy new year to you

  13. Ilka says

    01/01/2016 at 7:30 pm

    I totally agree Deborah. Mini steps are the way to go – it doesn’t happen any other way anyway, you have to accept that great changes take time. As soon as expect a fast fix, you automatically set yourself up for failure. Great New Years post and Happy New Year to you and your family!

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:19 pm

      I agree totally! Happy new year to you and look forward to connecting with you more this year

  14. Rachel says

    01/01/2016 at 7:55 pm

    Totally true. Resolutions don’t work. Great tips! Happy New Year!

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:09 pm

      Thanks! Happy new year

  15. Kathryn @ Dancing to Running says

    01/01/2016 at 8:19 pm

    I always find it difficult to focus on bigger goals without breaking them down into more manageable pieces. That way, its easier to stay focused on reaching the milestones without feeling overwhelmed.
    Kathryn @ Dancing to Running recently posted…January 2016 Monthly GoalsMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:14 pm

      Exactly! Happy new year to you and your beautiful new family

  16. Sharon says

    01/01/2016 at 9:42 pm

    Happy new year Deborah! These are great tips! Definitely with you on the baby steps! I’ve found that breaking it down leads to more positive results!
    Sharon recently posted…2015 Year in Running ReviewMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/01/2016 at 10:15 pm

      Exactly and more motivation happy new year!

  17. Elaine @myrunexperiment says

    01/02/2016 at 12:14 am

    Agree. No more resolutions for me. However I will continue to set goals that I can work on and as you mentioned “take baby steps” to achieve them.

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/02/2016 at 8:02 am

      Absolutely that’s the way to go! Happy new year

  18. jill conyers says

    01/02/2016 at 3:29 am

    I’ve had annual goals forever. I’ve gone from referring to them as resolutions to goals to intentions and back to goals and maybe back to intentions. This year it’s goals but with all of the changes once I stopped calling them resolutions I never went back. It’s all such a mental game.

    Of course I would love to have you share your post with the new Friday link up, Fitness Health & Happiness 🙂

    Happy new year Deborah!
    jill conyers recently posted…Fitness Health & HappinessMy Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/02/2016 at 8:06 am

      It is a mental game for sure! Yes I promise to share a post with your new Friday link up. Thanks and happy new year!

  19. Janice - The Fitness Cheerleader says

    01/02/2016 at 9:48 am

    Great tips! I’ve been very focused on SMART goals over the past few years, but this year I’ve decided to work on being a better friend and person and have decided to have a mantra to guide me through the year: LIFT – I hope to LIFT everyone up around me. What’s your goals/word for this year?

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/02/2016 at 10:19 am

      I love your mantra and how you aspire to help others. It’s great and I look forward to following your journey. Happy new year!

  20. Sharita says

    01/02/2016 at 12:27 pm

    I totally agree that these lofty resolutions we often set are just a path to failure! I like to break my goals down into much smaller things that I can accomplish in a few weeks or months. Then I feel like a winner once I check that off the list and that motivates me to reach for even more!

    Happy New Year and here’s to an awesome 2016!
    Sharita recently posted…How Will You #GetFitLikeThat in 2016?My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/02/2016 at 2:17 pm

      Exactly! Me too happy new year

  21. Mary Long says

    01/05/2016 at 3:36 pm

    I set an intention this year to be more courageous and step outside my comfort zone. I also want to have more adventures. Our first stop will be Boston in February for my daughter’s birthday. I am hoping it will be a mild, snowless weekend. Why can’t she be interning someplace warm? haha
    Mary Long recently posted…Setting intentions for 2016My Profile

    • Deborah Brooks says

      01/05/2016 at 9:24 pm

      Ooh Boston in February good luck!!

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